Some people will see setback as a kind of experience and continue to motivate oneself and more determined to move on in that direction. Others will see setback as a kind of demoralise incident and causing them to have 2nd thoughts in moving in that direction. Which group of people u belong to?

Your character, thinking changed as time progress. Quite true. In the past, setback is nothing to me which is the 1st group. But now, I more to the 2nd group. Don't dare to anyhow take a step forward, afraid of the failure as outcome...

Company always like to "extort" as much as they can from employees. They will not remember how much unpaid OT u had done but will remember how much time off u had taken... Working for them is like selling your life to them. During interview, say until like "天上有， 地上无", 5.5 days work week. Now is like almost every week 6 days. Company also state the paid OT timing ini such a way that u had to do unpaid OT and before u reached the paid OT timing, your work already finished. Company = dracula, suck till u dry....

Rejected my big boss kopi. Don't feel like been an entertainer after work some more.... They can sit inside office surf net the whole day and when I sit there for a while doing nothing, arrows keep shooting at me. Treating me like I just pass out from O Level, know nothing about M&E.... just because I keep quiet. Maybe they still don't understand beware of quiet person, coz they always do things using their heart and brain which is more deadly... Yearly increment only $50 and yet they expect u to do so much... The fastest way to promote and raise pay is by job hopping. True??

"如果你不想被别人踩在下面, 那么你就要踩在别人的头上; 命运的残酷在于扼住了你的喉咙那只手: 是你.. 还是别人! 这就是... 残酷的自然竞争法则"